A recommendation for the first time … dropping a nursery or inciting her children to accuse their father of harassment

The head of the incubation committee in Dubai, head of the family guidance department in the Dubai courts, Ahmed Abdul Karim, said during a meeting with the “Arab Cast” platform, that the children are claiming allegations against one of the parents such as “my mother does not love us”, or “my father is violent or harassed” or “we do not want to see the father or mother”, pointing out that the committee is studying through its members the extent of innocence and spontaneity in the responses The report.

He stated that one of the most dangerous cases that passed on the committee, and ended for the first time with the issuance of a final ruling to drop the custody of the mother, began with the incitement of the mother who is incubating for the children not to see their father, and claimed that this is their personal desire, and the father complained to the court, begging the vision of his children, and fined the mother because of her behavior, and it was proven by the vision council that she did not cooperate in this aspect.

He pointed out that the court referred the case to the incubation committee, and the shock was that the mother resorted to escalation, and committed a very dangerous behavior, as she took the children to a psychiatrist, and found them to say that their father harassed them.

Abdel Karim said that the committee team sat with her and asked her about the harassment incident, and she was confused, and she said, I saw nothing, but the daughter said that, then she changed her words, and she claimed that he was violent with the girl, then she mentioned that her daughter was fancy, and she was not responsible for that.

He added that the social researcher sat with their son as a young child, and I asked him after she reassured him and felt comfortable with her, whether he loved his father, and the child replied in the affirmative, then I asked him, do you want to see him, so the child hesitated, and said, “My mother can get angry.”

He pointed out that by examining the case, it was found that the man is a good father, loves his children, and is emotionally related to them, spent on them with generosity, and sponsored their expenses, and he goes to the school waiting in the sun to see them, and then after the committee obtained several clues, I submitted it to the court and recommended to drop the nursery and this is a great matter, and the court responded and a ruling was issued to drop, so the mother stabbed him, but the court supported him.

Abdul Karim stressed that the accusation of one of the two parties of harassing the children, whether it is by the mother towards the father, or by the latter towards the mother’s husband, is a great matter, danger, and the heart of the heart, because its effect is destroyed on the children, and it cannot be tolerated with him.

He continued that if the matter was in his hand, he would be tightened in the articles of the law related to the vision, because it is not entitled to deprive the other of the vision of his children, as this is a major reason for delinquency, pointing out that despite the legislative amendments in this regard, the problems are still continuing in all the emirates of the state.

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He stated that one of the cases with which the committee dealt with is a father who noticed that his children repeat one words against him: “You are hitting us”, “We do not love you”, “We are afraid of you”, so he raised his complaint to the court.

He continued that the mother denied that she had found them, and said that the children express their feelings honestly, so the committee listened to the children, and noted that the answers are repeated and similar in an abnormal way, which indicated the presence of indoctrination.

This was recorded as a negative factor against the mother, and confirmed that it harms the interests of children, and the court adopted the report.