Parenting without screaming… clear rules and positive results

Positive education is an essential pillar in building a child’s personality and behavior. Experiments show that clear expectations from the beginning help children regulate themselves automatically, without resorting to frequent punishment or excessive rewards.

Specialists point out that self-discipline is acquired at an early age, as children tend by nature to please their parents, which makes clearly defining rules and boundaries a decisive factor in their commitment to them. This includes setting fixed rules, simply explaining the reasons for them, and praising adherence to them, with the need for parents to be role models in respecting the rules.

It is also recommended to enhance problem-solving skills and encourage children to make their own decisions, which develops independence and reduces tantrums resulting from frustration. Encouraging people to try and think critically contributes to raising self-confidence and the ability to deal with challenges.

Teaching patience is an integral part of education, by allowing children to experience waiting, helping them express their feelings, and motivating them in activities that do not provide immediate results.

Finally, promoting empathy is central, by teaching children to understand and respect the feelings of others, and encouraging them to notice body language and appreciate positive behaviours.

With these foundations, children grow up with discipline, patience, and empathy, and who are able to interact positively with themselves and their surroundings.