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المملكة: Family advisor: Self-control and understanding are the basis of family stability during Ramadan


Family consultant Dr. Imad Al-Farsi confirmed that The blessed month of Ramadan represents a golden opportunity to rearrange family relationships, reject differences, and promote the values ​​of tolerance and forgiveness.

He said that the advice I offer to society during this holy month is to try to reconcile and stay away from hostility and daily problems between spouses, stressing that Fastingmay impose psychological and physical pressures on the individual and the family, which requires a greater degree of self-control, calmness, and understanding in dealing, especially within the family environment.

He added that Islam urges controlling anger, citing the hadith of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace: “The strong person is not the one who strikes, but the strong person is the one who controls himself when angry,” calling for following simple but effective methods to control the emotion, such as seeking refuge from Satan, counting calmly, and taking a deep breath. Deep, or leave the place temporarily until the souls calm down."Dr.

Positive atmosphere

In the context of talking about the marital relationship during the month of Ramadan, Al-Farsi stressed the importance of the husband’s consideration of his wife’s circumstances, especially in the periods before breaking the fast, when the wife is under the pressure of working in the kitchen and daily preparations, indicating that a kind word, moral support, and simple appreciation have a great impact in reducing tension and building a positive family atmosphere.

Al-Farsi touched on what is known in sociology as “role theory,” explaining that many problems Familyism can be avoided if each individual fulfills his primary role within the family; The husband’s fulfillment of his role and responsibilities to a high degree, as well as the wife’s commitment to her role and duties, contribute directly to reducing disputes and achieving family balance.

He concluded his speech by emphasizing that the family is the first nucleus of society, and that understanding, tolerance, and performing roles consciously and responsibly do not only reflect on the comfort of family members, but rather its positive impact extends to include the entire community, calling for investing the month of Ramadan as a space for review, rapprochement, and building more aware and stable family relationships.

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